Last week I spent an entire day with my young adult son. I
learned so much! I had a clue that my son is a wise man, a gentle soul,
creative and driven by an inner push to reach his goals. I had an idea and yet,
when I spend time with him I am amazed at who he is: his insight and wisdom when
he is afraid, and his courage when he is passionate about something. I find
myself awed by the many facets of my son. And then I remember. I remember the
Truth about my son. He is made in the image and likeness of the Divine. He is
an expression of the Infinite Potential that I call God. Of course he is today
more than he was as a child and of course his interests have evolved and
shifted over the years – even the weeks since I last spent time with him. He, like
the rest of us is continuing to evolve.
learned so much! I had a clue that my son is a wise man, a gentle soul,
creative and driven by an inner push to reach his goals. I had an idea and yet,
when I spend time with him I am amazed at who he is: his insight and wisdom when
he is afraid, and his courage when he is passionate about something. I find
myself awed by the many facets of my son. And then I remember. I remember the
Truth about my son. He is made in the image and likeness of the Divine. He is
an expression of the Infinite Potential that I call God. Of course he is today
more than he was as a child and of course his interests have evolved and
shifted over the years – even the weeks since I last spent time with him. He, like
the rest of us is continuing to evolve.
What kind of parent are you? Do you see the Divine in yourself as a parent and in your children sometimes, rarely, all the time? Whether you are Permissive,
authoritarian, certain, or a leaf in the wind your parenting style and experience probably
changes with the situation and the child involved. I am the same parent with
both of my kids – authentically me – and I use different parenting tools because
my two kids are not the same person. Of course! They have unique personalities,
they respond to pressure – both self imposed and inferred differently. They respond
to my parenting differently. Man it would have been easier if they wanted the
same, acted the same, and responded the same – but that’s not the way life
works. Every child-parent relationship is unique. Each has their lessons for us
and the opportunity for us, the parent, to know ourselves and our children better
– and in knowing ourselves and them a little bit more completely, honestly,
openly we are allowing the Divine to be known – by means of us.
authoritarian, certain, or a leaf in the wind your parenting style and experience probably
changes with the situation and the child involved. I am the same parent with
both of my kids – authentically me – and I use different parenting tools because
my two kids are not the same person. Of course! They have unique personalities,
they respond to pressure – both self imposed and inferred differently. They respond
to my parenting differently. Man it would have been easier if they wanted the
same, acted the same, and responded the same – but that’s not the way life
works. Every child-parent relationship is unique. Each has their lessons for us
and the opportunity for us, the parent, to know ourselves and our children better
– and in knowing ourselves and them a little bit more completely, honestly,
openly we are allowing the Divine to be known – by means of us.
As a practice, we can make the effort to get to know another
side, the divinity of our kids by remembering the truth about them, and ourselves,
by looking with an expectation of seeing the divine, and with the humility of
knowing it has been there all the time. Sometimes that is tough, even seems
downright impossible! I know. I have been there. But wait; there is help for
this work!!! Each month at the Parent
Forum we challenge our old views, beliefs and strategies. We hold them up to
the light of Love, Truth and Reality within the loving support and wisdom of
the group. The life of the parent is one who is constantly being
challenged, praised, criticized and idealized. Find some peace and clarity in
your own experience at the Parent Forum on April 9th.
side, the divinity of our kids by remembering the truth about them, and ourselves,
by looking with an expectation of seeing the divine, and with the humility of
knowing it has been there all the time. Sometimes that is tough, even seems
downright impossible! I know. I have been there. But wait; there is help for
this work!!! Each month at the Parent
Forum we challenge our old views, beliefs and strategies. We hold them up to
the light of Love, Truth and Reality within the loving support and wisdom of
the group. The life of the parent is one who is constantly being
challenged, praised, criticized and idealized. Find some peace and clarity in
your own experience at the Parent Forum on April 9th.